Couples Therapy
For partners caught in a familiar pattern, or finding each other again after a change.
Read MoreCouples Therapy for Long Marriages
After many years together, couples can know each other very well and still feel far apart.
Rebecca Victor, LP-D
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Couples Therapy for Long Marriages
After many years together, couples can know each other very well and still feel far apart.
When familiarity becomes distance
Long relationships carry shared history, routines, and private language. They can also carry old hurts, unspoken disappointments, and patterns that harden over time. It is common to love someone and still feel lonely with them.
Looking beneath the surface
Couples work with Rebecca makes room for what happens between you and for what each of you brings from your own history. The aim is understanding, not deciding who is right.
What changes in midlife
Children leaving, retirement, illness, and aging parents can shift a long marriage. Couples therapy can be a place to talk about what those changes mean for each of you and for the relationship.
Starting together
Couples therapy begins with both partners agreeing to try. A free 15-minute consultation is a place to ask about fit and practical arrangements. Onboarding happens only after you both agree to try working together.
Frequently asked questions
Do both of us need to want therapy?
It helps if both partners are willing to try. You can discuss hesitations in the consultation.
Is couples therapy only for marriages in crisis?
No. Some couples come to reconnect or to navigate a transition rather than because of a crisis.
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Read MoreA conversation about fit comes first.
Ask about a free 15-minute consultation. Onboarding follows only after you agree to try working together.