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Being a Father in Midlife

Fatherhood keeps changing as children grow, and midlife can bring new questions about the kind of father you are.

Rebecca Victor, LP-D

Questions That Matter to You

Being a Father in Midlife

Fatherhood keeps changing as children grow, and midlife can bring new questions about the kind of father you are.

Changing roles

Teenage and adult children need different things than young children do. You may feel less needed, more criticized, or unsure how to stay close. You might also notice your own father's influence showing up in ways you did not expect.

Looking at your own history

How you were parented often shapes how you parent. Therapy can help you look at that inheritance, keep what you value, and understand reactions that seem to come from somewhere older.

Fatherhood and partnership

Parenting can strain a relationship, especially when partners have different styles or expectations. Individual therapy can help you understand your part, and couples work may be another option to discuss.

Starting the conversation

A free 15-minute consultation is a place to ask about fit and practical arrangements. Onboarding happens only after you both agree to try working together.

Frequently asked questions

Does Rebecca see children or families?
This page describes individual therapy for adults. Ask during the consultation if you have questions about other arrangements.
Can I talk about my relationship with my own father?
Yes. That history is often relevant and welcome in sessions.

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Ask about a free 15-minute consultation. Onboarding follows only after you agree to try working together.